This principle is so important because it can be easy to get caught up in negativity and let that affect your mood/creativity, etc. but if you keep a positive mindset it’ll be easier to decline that invitation (to get caught up in negative perspectives/news). 

We're not meant to be copycats. We all have natural creativity. When it comes to spicy work, we see what other creators are doing and it’s normal to be inspired by it. Lean into your creativity about it, though – what would you do differently that they’re not doing? Run with that idea.

It's so amazing when a “whale” shows up for us. They spend lots of money on tributes, gifts, calls, and more. It’s exciting. It’s yummy. But what happens when they move on?

But in the spicy world, we as content creators get to also create what we want. But without knowing what you want, what your YES is, you can’t do this. If you do things you don’t want to do, it's an invitation to attract more experiences like this. And I don’t want that for you!

When it comes to spicy work, thank goodness we come in different shapes, sizes, ages, flavors, kinks and fetishes because men are looking for something specific for their desired experience. But it isn’t just about body types. This is about our attitudes, life experiences, and more, as well.

We are sexual creatures and owning that about ourselves is one of the ways that we tap into abundance around our spicy work.

Having an Abundance Mindset around what I do has certainly had a positive impact on the work and it's profitability. I have added over six figures to my annual income with loads of fun and personal enjoyment in the mix as well.